Healing Approaches Explained

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT, typically pronounced as the word “act”) is an evidence-based psychotherapy that uses awareness and mindfulness strategies to increase acceptance of uncomfortable thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations. We learn where clients might be stuck, clarify the values that clients treasure most, and create goals in service of those values. When people find that they don’t have to struggle so hard to rid themselves of internal discomfort, they are able to avoid less, choose more, and commit to taking action in more meaningful and fulfilling directions.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is an approach to counseling that helps people handle painful thoughts and feelings in a new way. ACT is a modern form of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy that helps you accept what you cannot control and commit to actions aligned with your values. Instead of trying to get rid of difficult emotions or force ourselves to “think positive,” ACT encourages people to notice their thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. The idea is to learn to accept what we can’t control and take meaningful actions that align with what truly matters to us. Through mindfulness, values exploration, and goal setting, ACT helps people build a more flexible and purposeful way of living

ACT is used to help with a wide range of issues, including anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, chronic pain, and even conditions like OCD or substance use. It’s not about fixing what’s “wrong,” but about changing the way people relate to their inner experiences so they can move forward in life. For example, someone struggling with anxiety might learn to notice their anxious thoughts without letting those thoughts control their actions, allowing them to engage more fully in work, relationships, or hobbies.

One of the biggest benefits of ACT is that it helps people reconnect with what gives their life meaning, even in the presence of emotional pain. It’s a good fit for people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or are tired of trying to “fight” their feelings. ACT is especially helpful for those who are open to self-reflection and willing to try new ways of dealing with old problems. It can be used in individual therapy, groups, or even in self-help formats, making it a flexible and widely accessible treatment option.

Mind Body Therapy Collective Practitioners

Rob Handelman, Psy.D.

Rob is a clinical psychologist in NY and NJ, with over 25 years of experience as an integrative psychotherapist. With a warm, non-judgmental and interactive style, his main modality is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, a mindfulness and evidence-based modality that helps clients clarify meaningful values, increase self-awareness and compassion, and move towards what matters in ways that work.

Tonya Swartzendruber, LPC, LMHC

Tonya is a professional counselor, licensed in New York and New Jersey. Tonya draws from over a decade of experience treating OCD, anxiety, body focused repetitive behaviors and related problems. She brings expertise in acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive behavior therapy, and the integration of exposure and response prevention. Tonya’s approach is warm, collaborative, and goal directed.

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